My dear Brothers, please notice and don't forget: Life as a man includes more than the fact that we incorporate a archetypical male structure - it is also about how we are able to learn and to develop it.
We are used to complain that our fathers were absent while we were growing up. Working - engaged in their wars. Their wars of figthing for survival or their real wars weaponed, haunting their lives and families.
Women seem to grow up in a biotop of ideals, models of feminine power and structure - girls thus developing their female wisdom and sex by being close to their mothers and grandmothers. We, my dear brothers, as we grew up and live as men on this world: Are we envying them this their natural garden of love, education and development? If we do so, let me ask: Do we have to? Do we need to claim our fathers and grandfathers at home for giving us a similar example of men's behaviours and purposes?
We are used to complain that our fathers were absent while we were growing up. Working - engaged in their wars. Their wars of figthing for survival or their real wars weaponed, haunting their lives and families.
Women seem to grow up in a biotop of ideals, models of feminine power and structure - girls thus developing their female wisdom and sex by being close to their mothers and grandmothers. We, my dear brothers, as we grew up and live as men on this world: Are we envying them this their natural garden of love, education and development? If we do so, let me ask: Do we have to? Do we need to claim our fathers and grandfathers at home for giving us a similar example of men's behaviours and purposes?
Or should we better become aware of the fact, that the difference between men and women is even bigger as we thought it were: Not only the content of being man differs from the content of being woman. Even the way of receiving the required information - that is: the input for forming ourselves - of becoming a man differs from that of becoming a woman. We have to go and to search. And we have to look for our masters and teachers and ideals - as we have to look for our fathers. Let's go, my brothers, without complaining.
Let just our sighs emerge from our hearts as heralds for our self-education desires.
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